we too often hear it said: happiness is elusive.
it is true.
because happiness is not found in money, prestige, success in this or that endeavor; happiness is found in the combination of all these!
but, even these are not enough, actually.
authentic happiness comes from within, from a state of equanimity.
if i were to measure life, i would measure it based on the happiness or joy i derive from every activity i involve myself in. not in how much money or how high I have achieved in the competition struggle. don't get me wrong, i do not scoff at money or achievements. believe me, i love these!!!
money is good; it allows me to live a comfortable existence, and it gives me the freedom to do the things i love to do...
a certain degree of competition is good; i surely did enjoy some competition in the past, which served only to strengthen my character.
but i see money, accomplishments, and "winning" in competitions as only add-ons. i believe real happiness comes from inner contentment and peace.
oh, tell me, am i just getting old?
inner peace, freedom, and universal love are three things i value most, which do bring me happiness.
so i think the question to be asked while alive is: "am i genuinely happy?"
if the answer is negative, then hell, make yourself happy! you owe it to yourself. no one else can make you happy but yourself.
there is a saying: what does it profit a man to own the whole world but loses his soul?
is the same with: what does it profit a man to possess everything but joy and happiness?
3 comments:
Kero said...
love, love the photo Artemis..especially the pink crocs =)
thank you so much for the visit and have a good summer!
Kayni said...
you look so content on this photo. i agree...happiness comes from within.
vMarie said...
happiness. almost forgot what it meant. totally needed this reminder. thanks :)